I know the expression “time flies” is such a cliché, but sometimes it seems like it really does fly. Now, here we are in October, which means it’s time for simplifying Thanksgiving. Holidays can be overwhelming for some of us, especially when we’re already so busy with a busy job, tasks at home, and everyday life events.
Set Expectations
Firstly, ask your family how they want to celebrate the holiday. Do you want to spend Thanksgiving with immediate or extended family or only friends? Will you host or be a guest? Will it be a brunch, lunch, or dinner? Will you eat at home or go to a restaurant?
Thanksgiving Planning Tips
Whether you are a planner or a fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants person, here are some tips for simplifying Thanksgiving.
- Plan your meal. Planning can save time and be less stressful for you. Decide if you will dine on turkey or something else. Write a list of side dishes and desserts you are considering.
- Simplify the menu. With fewer dishes, you’ll have less to prepare and less to clean up afterwards.
- Shop with intention. Make a detailed shopping list and stick to your budget.
- Prepare food in advance. A day or two before, prepare appetizers and desserts. You could also ask someone else to provide them or buy ready-made.
- Share the workload. Consider hosting a potluck meal. Ask family and friends to bring their favourite healthy side dishes. Those on a budget or unable to cook (e.g. travelling from out-of-town) can contribute to the celebration by providing a tablecloth, napkins, and flowers or helping with set-up and clean-up.
- Make it brunch or lunch. Consider celebrating during brunch or lunch instead of having the traditional turkey dinner. In fact, it might be a better option for people who are travelling, or if you decide to eat at a restaurant. Besides, your new family tradition might become Thanksgiving lasagna at Ristorante Luigi.
Whatever you choose, do what’s best for you and your family by simplifying Thanksgiving and (hopefully) making it as stress-free as possible. Remember, you are the only one who will know that something isn’t perfect. Happy Thanksgiving!